4.26.2004

Hello Everyone!

We are very excited to announce that Scott will be receiving his Masters of Divinity from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School on Saturday, May 8th, 2004. It’s been a long road of studying and learning over the past 9 years and the day has finally arrived! Woo Hoo! We are all so proud of him.

We are inviting all of you to stop by our home that evening to share in a casual celebration. Our home will be open from 6-9PM, so feel free to stop by at any point during that time and share with Scott your personal congratulations. We would like to share a few minutes of prayer at some point with those who are interested, but otherwise we’d just like to hang out with as many of you that can make it.

Our address is:
1751 N. Talman Avenue
Chicago, IL 60647

If you would be interested in attending please send an email to Michele at moxiegray@yahoo.com so we can have a reasonable expectation of attendance. We’ll have cake and beverages and if anyone would like to bring an appetizer, we would accept your offer (please don’t think it’s a requirement). We’ll be hoping and praying that Scott will be doing well that day.

We would love to see you!

Scott & Michele

4.10.2004

April 9, 2004

Hi Everyone! It’s Michele, the wife. Thanks for your responses to Scott’s last update. A number of people were very funny in their comments and hair suggestions. We love that!

We wanted to let you know about a couple of things. First, many of you have been wondering . . . . “When can I call you???” We want you to know that we too are REALLY looking forward to speaking with you in person. We’re grateful that you held back since we never could have imagined how much time we would be spending on the phone every day. Even though we are still on the phone a lot every day, we want to open up the lines to all of you who have been longing to give us a call. The only thing we ask is that you would continue to get the bulk of your update on Scott’s progress from scooterscoop. It can be hard to repeat the details multiple times every day.

Next, I have some not-so-serious but disappointing news. As many of you know, Scott and I have been waiting to see our daughter Josephine get her 2-second appearance on the TV show “ER”. They’ve been delaying the episode for many weeks due to other programming and reruns. Well, last night we think was the night. . . and . . it appears they cut her scene, accept for a very fuzzy shot of her in the distance. So, we’re going to Hollywood to protest! Please join our cause.

Lastly, many of you have offered to help us out and we have been sending you over to our dear friend Nicolle who was coordinating for us. She has been a great help to us but now we can take your phone calls directly. It’s helpful if you are specific about what area you can help in and when. We’re very grateful for your help as Scott is undergoing daily radiation and chemotherapy for the next 7 weeks. This will continue to be very busy time for us and physically demanding as well. Some of our needs are for help around the house, watching Josephine, running errands and meals. In addition, I twisted my foot last night (simply walking) and it’s bit swollen and painful today. Thank you so much for all the love and support we are receiving from you.

Here’s our address and phone number.

1751 N. Talman Ave.
Chicago, IL 60647
773-227-3048

Thanks bunches and bunches,
Michele

4.06.2004

First of all, thank you for your wonderful patience in waiting for our update. It tells us that you can appreciate how much time nonstop doctor appointments and caring for a wonderful baby takes! We just want to say we phenomenally appreciate so much the love, help and prayers we’ve received. I’d like to talk more about this in another letter, but the truth is that every one of you has and continues to have a profound effect of encouragement on our lives. Thank you, thank you, and thank you!



The good news is that I still feel optimistic about things; even through I have a somewhat physically rough road ahead. The final diagnosis is that I have anaplastic astrocytoma, which is a level three cancer in a diffuse pattern throughout my remaining left temple with some penetration in my forward temple. This was confirmed by the top pathologist in the world at John Hopkins Hospital and then by a profound expert who we met with at the National Cancer Institute in the National Institute of Health in Bethesda, MD. This Wednesday I will start weekday radiation treatments for six weeks along with chemotherapy treatments which will continue for one to two years. Through these treatments we are looking to stop the tumors growth in its tracks. It is possible however that we could even see the entire tumor disappear and that would definitely be a huge plus.



The most interesting side effect of this treatment is that I’m going to have a new hairdo. After many years I am going to have Marine Corps style haircut with both sides shaved off (or will it be simply bald from the radiation? Hmmm.). The good thing is that the shaved heads is at this point in our culture are quite popular in many areas. Woohoo!



When it comes to prayer requests, I would ask for those are interested and willing, please pray that I would not endure to the worst extent some of the difficult side effects of the radiation and chemotherapy treatments that some people have to endure. Please also pray that these treatments would be as successful as possible. The truth is that my greatest concern is to continue for a long, long time to be a husband to Michele and a strong, loving father to my daughter Josephine who brings Michele and I so much joy. No matter what happens, you have to know that I appreciate your spiritual prayers and really believe they are impacting me in many, many ways. Despite all the difficulties we are really enjoying every single day.



On another level, I’m very happy to learn that I will be able to return to work contacting customers helping them improve their plastic pipe or vinyl siding businesses with the products that I sell. That will really help me focus on my career and help give me a solid focus on what is for most folks an important element of their lives. Additionally, after years of part time study over numerous semesters I will finally receive my Masters of Divinity degree from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School in Deerfield, IL. I can’t even tell you how much I am looking forward to my graduation and then using many of the things I’ve learned to teach classes at my own church and elsewhere. It’s going to be fun!



We want to thank everyone again for your love and support, it really means so much.



Scott

scooterscoop@comcast.net